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29/3/2026 2 Comments

The Spirits of Chislehurst Caves

Today I decided to do something which I have been meaning to do for a while, and that is to take a walk down to Chislehurst Caves and take the tour. It's roughly a two-hour walk each way from mine, and seeing as the sun was shining and I finally had no other plans, it seemed like the perfect opportunity! And lucky me - I arrived just in time for the 11am tour and was the only one of the tour.


The caves themselves are impressive; the only written proof that the caves exist are in Church mining records from 1737. However, they are believed to be much older than that. Whilst it is generally agreed that they were been dug initially to find chalk and flint back in 1250. One particularly eccentric archaeologist who worked on the caves (William Nichols, then Vice President of the British Archaeological Association) believed that they could be old enough to have been dug by the Druids! There are roughly 20 miles of tunnels beneath the surface, which over the years have been used not just for mining, but as an ammunitions storage site during the First World War, air raid shelter during the Second World War, a mushroom farm, a concert venue (having hosted the likes of Pink Floyd, The Beatles, and Jimi Hendrix), TV filming location, and now as a tourist attraction.


It is unsurprising that an old cave with such a rich history has its fair share of spirits. I will admit, I didn't sense much for most of the tour. However, as we got to one particular point, I become aware of many different spirits - too many to discern one over the other! Interestingly, this is where the tour guide decided to stop and tell the first ghost story. He did say that there was no historic evidence to prove that it was anything but a ghost story, but according to the internet the bones of a woman were found in that location in the 1940's. She is known as the White Lady, and her spirit has been seen rising from the shallow pool where she was drowned by her husband. The tour guide told me that following the reports, the owner of the cave decided to issue a challenge; if any person could spend the night near the pool with nothing but six candles and a sleeping bag, they would win £5 (which would probably be about £120 today). The owner very quickly rescinded the offer, as most of those who did take him up on it ended up very much not OK following the experience.


Another spirit said to haunt the caves is that of a young girl is reported to have died during a partial cave collapse in 1939. Her, and several other child spirits, are said to throw things at visitors whilst giggling (I was lucky enough to leave the caves unscathed). Then of course, there are the spirits of those who never left the shelters during the years that the World Wars were taking place, and the spirits of the Druids have even been said to walk the tunnels!


I personally found it interesting that throughout the entire tour, the spirit activity seemed to be concentrated around the one pool of water that had naturally collected within these tunnels. The element of water has played a large part in many death rites and rituals, through various different cultures and traditions; it acts as a portal, a barrier between this world and the world of the dead. It doesn't surprise me that this would be the place the spirits would choose to congregate!


As well as the standard day-time tours, the caves also put on evening 'spooky tours' which I am definitely going to be keeping an eye open for - it seems like the perfect opportunity to learn more and see if more spirits present themselves.


For anyone in or around the London area, I highly recommend checking out Chislehurst caves. Unfortunately they don't allow any photos to be taken in the caves otherwise I would be posting them here. And when I returned to the surface roughly 45 minutes later the next tour - the 12pm - looked to be fully booked! Tours are held on the hour, and I definitely recommend getting their early as spots on the tour are allocated on a first-come-first-serve basis.


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16/3/2026 4 Comments

Water Witchcraft for Protection in an Uncertain World

Many people turn to protection magic when the world feels unstable. News cycles move fast, uncertainty feels constant, and it can be easy to feel overwhelmed by forces beyond our control. Considering everything happening in the world at the time of writing this (I've lost count of how many 'once in a lifetime' events I've already lived through), this is especially relevant today.


When we think of protection work, we think of building shields, circles, wards, and creating barriers. But for a water witch, protection can look a little different. Rather than focusing on putting up rigid walls, we base our protection on flow, adaptability, cleansing, and emotional clarity. My personal practice emphasises protection which is less about fighting the world and more about remaining centred within it.


At first glance, water might not seem like the optimal element to work with for protection. Unlike earth or fire, it appears soft and yielding, too gentle to be able to protect effectively. But water protects through different qualities, such as cleansing and removal, healing and regeneration, being able to adapt, and emotional regulation. Water has the power to erode earth and other materials over time. It carries away what no longer belongs, it absorbs shock and diffuses force. All of these are powerful forms of protection that rely on movement rather than resistance.


For me, the first 'layer' of protection isn't technically magickal, but instead focuses on emotional clarity. When emotions are suppressed or ignored, energy becomes stagnant or blocked. Stagnation can leave us feeling overwhelmed, reactive, anxious and unable to cope. Water based protection allows us to shift these blockages, to restore our emotional flow, which in turn helps us feel stronger, more confident, and more able to draw boundaries where needed. Great practices to try including ritual bathing, journalling, meditation, using divination such as tarot to help you understand the root causes of these blockages, or even looking at energy healing practices such as reiki, chakra work, etc. With water being associated with our emotions and our intuition, it can help us understand what belongs to us, and what doesn't, preventing us from absorbing other peoples negativity.


I have no idea whether this is a controversial opinion or not, but I believe that cleansing is often more important than shielding. Rather than focusing on building barriers against every possible influence, water can help us regularly wash away what accumulates and builds up. Again, cleansing practices don't need to be complex; I would say the quicker and simpler the better, as this allows us to perform them regularly. My go-to methods include smoke cleansing with incense, ritual bathing (or showering), using salt water to cleanse my space, using a selenite wand over my body, and using sound (usually my Tibetan sound bowl). When I feel like I need a 'big' cleanse I will often perform an egg cleanse, or use my crystal sound bowls. And just a note; I mentioned using salt water to cleanse the space, but it can also be used on yourself. Salt has the added bonus of being associated with protection, adding an extra layer to your cleansing.


One of water's greatest protective qualities is the ability to keep moving. How often do we get stuck on a particular moment in our lives, letting it dominate our thoughts and behaviours? From minor embarrassments to traumatic incidents, water can help carry away the negativity that would keep us stagnant. Working with flowing water, such as rivers and streams, or even the water from your tap or the shower, can help us embrace this notion. You could try holding a bay leaf whilst focusing on what you want to let go, and then dropping it in a river and letting it flow away from you. Or if you don't have access to a river, fill a bowl of water and let what you want to let go infuse into this, then pour it down the drain. You could even try writing whatever it is on a piece of toilet paper and then flushing it down the toilet! Rivers are a great meditation focus to help us realise this movement, so use them as a visualisation if you enjoy meditation.


Water is fluid, and as a liquid, it moves to fit the space around it. If you pour water into a container, it flows to fit the space of the container. This is an important lesson we can learn from this element when it comes to protection; it survives by adapting to its environment. It takes the shape of whatever holds it, and when it is blocked it shifts direction and finds new paths when old ones close. We can protect ourselves by adjusting our boundaries depending on the circumstances, by recognising when to withdraw from situations rather than confront them, or by changing our approach rather than trying repeating the same things which leads to the same failure. This adaptability protects us because it prevents us from engaging in unnecessary battles, and allows us to instead circumnavigate that which is causing us harm, rather than barrelling head first into it.


Finally, water helps us return to our inner stillness when chaos surrounds us. Even in the most turbulent of seas, there are deeper layers of water than remain calm and still. This can be a great metaphor to work with when thinking about protection; instead of reacting to what is going on around you, visualise yourself as this still layer of water, letting the chaos wash over you, before you act. When you are centred within yourself, outside forces have far less power to destabilise us.


Whilst water may not be the most obvious element to work with for protection, I urge you to give it a go next time you want to work some protection magic. Gentle yet powerful, it empowers us in many ways that can only be of benefit given the challenging times we are living in.


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1/3/2026 6 Comments

Living As A Pagan In The City

When we think of paganism - which is essentially a nature religion - we often visualise forest clearings, flowing rivers, and ancient stones. But unfortunately for most of us pagans today, we don’t live surrounded by wilderness. We live in flats, terraced houses, tower blocks, and busy streets. It can feel difficult connecting with nature when you don't feel as though you have much nature around you. We can struggle to resonate with the trees and wildlife when we are surrounded by concrete and metal. But urban paganism brings its own form of relationship with the land and spirit, one which is shaped by this concrete, crowds, and the constant movement of the city.


The city is still an ecosystem. They are often framed as “unnatural,” but they are living systems: rivers are redirected underground, the birds make their nests in the rooftops, and if you look closely you can see the plants and weeds breaking through cracks in the pavements. In fact, weather patterns can be intensified by the presence of humans; thanks to the 'urban heat island' effect, built environments trap heat and alter local atmospheric conditions. For urban pagans, connecting to these places often means learning to listen beneath the noise. We can find natural beauty in the way that the rain hits the pavement and feel gratitude for the fertility it brings. We can see the moon rising between the buildings and connect with lunar energies, and we can work with the foxes, pigeons, and mice as animal guides.


Urban paganism asks us to expand our idea of what counts as nature, and sacred life. We can find representations of the elements in our every day lives, even in our own flats, as we live within the city. For example, the element of earth can be found in our houseplants, community gardens, even in building materials. The element of water exists in the rivers that run beneath our feet, in the rain, taps, condensation, and our own showers. The element of air appears in the wind tunnels between buildings, our breath, and shifts in the weather. And the element of fire can be found in traditional candles, electricity, our ovens, and the sun (when it eventually shines which can feel like a rare occurence here in the UK!).


I find that as a pagan living in the city, being able to balance myself is even more essential. Cities are busy places, and the energy can sometimes feel chaotic. I personally find that learning to ground, centre, and use techniques such as energy shields to protect my energy is especially important. But often, I love embracing this energy! Feeling the flow of it as people traverse the city and tapping into this can be electrifying. 


Urban sacred space often prioritises portability, privacy, and flexibility. What matters is not size or aesthetics, but consistency and relationship. I have found that it is important to find your own sacred spaces within the city. Just because we don't have leafy forests or far-reaching seas to connect with doesn't mean that there aren't still opportunities available to us. Many cities are steeped in history; the city I live in had a large Roman occupation, and with a little bit of research it is easy to find sites were temples and spaces where ancient deities and such were honoured. These may not be large, or even obvious, but perhaps a surviving water fountain or an old, crumbling wall. Or, you can make your own. Perhaps there is a specific bench you like to sit on during your lunchbreak, or a particular route you like to walk when you're feeling stressed and need a break? Maybe there is a certain coffee shop you meet your friends in regularly, somewhere that counts as a 'happy place' for you? Focus on how these places make you feel and how you connect with them; as the saying goes, there is magic in the mundane.


There are of course some extra considerations we need to make as pagans in the city. We may not be able to practice esbats or celebrate sabbats publically as it can be hard to find private spaces in the city. And if we do, we have to ensure our own personal safety first if we are performing somewhere out of the way. It can feel difficult to connect with the energy of the sabbats when the signs of the changing seasons aren't overly obvious (such as budding flowers, or falling leaves), but again, the city can reflect these changes in different ways. For example, I find that in my city, tourism is at its highest during the summer months, declining in the autumn months to almost none in the winter, and then starting to rise again in the spring. As the spring hits, the garden centres start to fill with a wider variety of plants, whereas during the winter they are pretty much empty. I know these may sound small or trivial, but paganism often emphasises cycles, and tuning into the cycles of your own city can be extremely powerful.


Urban places often hold many spirits; they may not be the spirits we will find in the trees and forests of the countryside, but rather our ancestors and the spirits of those who have gone before us, spirits of the home, and spirits of those deities and entities that were worshipped by those who lived before. The history of cities can complex, involving colonisation, industrialisation, and inequality. Honouring the land around us can mean acknowledging these complexities and working to heal the hurts of the past and the present.


Community can also look different in the city. It is often assumed that living in a large, diverse place must mean that there are more like-minded people you can connect with and practice with. However, I personally have found that this is not always the case. In fact, communities may tend to be smaller, and maybe even more 'exclusive' (often having been built by those who have had bad experiences with other communities in the past). Yes, there are more people which may mean more like-minded people, but it can also been more people with whom you don't agree with! In fact, even within cities, communities may be predominantly online - cities are large places, and sometimes even travelling from one end to the other can take hours. It is my experience that actually, communities in the city are often smaller, more private, and more discreet in the way they practice.


Urban paganism teaches us many things. It teaches us resilience, resourcefulness, creativity, and adaptability. It shows that sacred relationship is not dependent on ideal conditions. The city provides us with lots of opportunities - not just in terms of career paths of leisure activities, but spiritually too. Sometimes, we just need to listen a little harder to truly embrace it.

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